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WHY PREARRANGE?
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
REGARDING ADVANCE
FUNERAL PLANNING AND FUNDING
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Why
should I consider advance funeral planning?
The most certain and least talked about major event in
everyone’s life is death. The major problem with funerals is that
the person who should have made the decisions about the event
didn’t. Now family members are left to decide without knowing what
the deceased would have wanted. In addition, many people do not
know what is involved in the process.
Being prepared eliminates the uncertainties for loved ones. Trust
me, they will appreciate it. In addition, many families are unaware
of the costs of funerals and what is necessary to arrange them.
Unfortunately, the decisions that must be made regarding numerous
details come at a time when remaining family members may be
emotionally too weak to cope adequately with the task.
Being prepared is having peace of mind. A recent survey showed that
seventy-one percent of those who have pre-arranged their funeral did
so to relieve their families of the burden of funeral arrangements
and cost. Many more said they liked the sense of personal
independence it gave them.
Your own personal family record. Every person and family should
discuss their personal desires concerning death and burial. These
preferences and plans should be put in writing before the actual
need occurs. Awareness of practical considerations related to death
and preparation ahead of time can make a big difference in the way
our family emerges from the crisis.
Get all the facts and then decide. We urge you to get all the facts
and then decide. We can help by providing you a Memorial Guide and
full information on what is involved in pre-arrangement and how your
costs can be frozen at today’s prices.
There is no obligation or charge for this valuable service. You
will have all the facts in advance so you are able to make decisions
calmly and thoughtfully. After all, it’s one thing you can do
better than anyone else on earth.
The most thoughtful gift you can give your family takes no more than
your time.
What does pre-arrangement mean?
Pre-arrangement means that you make your funeral and cemetery
arrangements yourself, while you are still alive, rather than
leaving these arrangements to be made by someone else after your
death.
Why should I pre-arrange?
There are several reasons why all individuals should pre-arrange
for all of their funeral and cemetery needs.
*First, if pre-arrangements are not made, the entire burden of
making such arrangements will fall upon your family or friend
following your death.
*Second, many people have strong feelings as to how they would like
their funeral and cemetery arrangements to be handled.
*Third, the selection of funeral and cemetery arrangements is an
important decision that cannot be reversed.
Who should I contact regarding pre-arrangements?
In order for pre-arrangements to be most beneficial, it is
advisable to discuss your wishes with a family service counselor who
represents funeral homes, a crematory and a cemetery.
What does pre-payment mean?
Pre-payment means paying for your funeral and cemetery
pre-arrangements yourself, while you are alive, rather than having
someone else or your estate pay for your arrangements after your
death.
Why should I pre-pay?
There are several reasons why pre-payment should accompany
pre-arrangement. Most importantly, unless you pre-pay, in the form
of a binding contract made in conjunction with your
pre-arrangements, it is quite possible that none of the advantages
of pre-arrangements will be realized. If financial arrangements are
made after death, the person making them will most likely be a
grief-stricken widow or widower, who will make an emotional decision
under severe time constraints.
Pre-payment also helps to ensure that funds will be available to
provide for the specific goods and services that you prefer.
In addition, many individuals find that they have much greater peace
of mind knowing that all aspects of their funeral and cemetery
arrangements, including the financial aspects, have been finalized.
What types of pre-payment options exist?
There are three major types of pre-payment options: Payment in
cash into an annuity for the mortuary or cash paid directly to the
cemetery where the arrangements are made, insurance earmarked for
these expenses, or placing your money aside in a separate bank
account to be used only for funeral and cemetery expenses.
Keep in mind the following. Money paid into an annuity for the
mortuary or paid directly to the cemetery will normally eliminate
the need for someone to make detailed financial arrangements with
that establishment at the time of your death. If insurance is
purchased, the need to make such arrangements may or may not be
eliminated, depending upon the manner in which you purchased the
insurance. If you place money aside yourself, a loved one will
definitely have to make the necessary arrangements at the time of
your death and many of the advantages associated with pre-payment
will be lost.
Who should I contact regarding pre-payment?
Regardless of the pre-payment option you select, you should
first consult a representative of the funeral home and cemetery
whose services you plan to utilize in order to learn the approximate
cost of the services and merchandise that you prefer. This
information will allow you to determine the approximate cost of your
pre-payment, before you select a particular funding option.
How do I know if I am getting a fair price?
As is the case with most purchases, the only way to really know
whether you are getting a fair price is to do some comparison
shopping. Here again lies one of the major advantages of
pre-arrangement and pre-payment. It is fairly easy to take the time
to do some comparison shopping when you are making your own
pre-arrangements and are not under any severe time constraints. A
great source for this information is a family service counselor.
*First, determine the exact services and merchandise that you want,
and then be sure that you compare the prices from different
establishments. Your family service counselor can assist in this
effort.
*Second, insist that all information be provided to you in an
itemized format. Again, the family service counselor is a terrific
source.
*Third, compare the “bottom line.”
*Fourth, be sure to consider factors other
than price, such as, reputation, facilities and relationship with
the firm’s personnel.
What products and services are covered through pre-payment?
Virtually any funeral, cemetery or crematory merchandise or
service can be pre-paid.
Is the price of merchandise and services that have been
pre-purchased guaranteed against inflation?
The answer to this question depends on the funding option you
select. Money placed into an annuity will increase annually and
therefore provide inflation coverage and will guarantee the future
cost of the services selected to be fully covered in conjunction
with a care agreement and a funeral home. This is also true with an
increasing value life insurance policy purchased in conjunction with
a care agreement and a funeral home.
Money placed into your own savings account for this eventuality does
not have inflation protection. Neither does the use of an existing
life insurance policy that was not issued in conjunction with a care
agreement and a funeral home.
Can I change my pre-arrangements once they
are pre-paid?
Virtually all funeral homes and cemeteries will allow you to change
the specific merchandise or services that you selected after you
have pre-paid for them.
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